Friday, August 12, 2011

Dating Woman From Russia

Many of the dating agencies tout, how young Russian women are so family oriented and will make wonderful wives and family partners. This causes many foreign men to dream about the perfect family! A family that they have already built up in their own imagination.

Every man who has seen the Russian dating agency ads and believes in them completely, has built up in his mind, and has created his own fantasy, of what a future family with a Russian women, will be.

If the man's dreams are based on a foundation the marriage agency has constructed and no on a healthy dose of common sense, then, most likely the relationship is at great risk of disappointment and inevitable, failure

.The dating services help bring you together, they do not help you to stay together ! It is not their job to make your relationship last, so they don't bother to warn you of the many pitfalls that can become you and destroy your marriage. What do you expect of your new Russian bride and what do you really know about her??

I want to give you an example how you can read into the marriage agency advertising using a critical eye and common sense.

Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their procedure to join. Look at Russian women from 21 to 25 years old.. Pay close attention to what these women have written in their bio s.. Do you see anything in common??? Of course you is very obvious ! Ninety percent if not more of these women have written that they have a bachelor degree. They just finished or going to finish their educational requirements. Ask yourself, WHY?

If all the dating agencies are telling you that all Russian women are very family oriented and in most cases live to serve their husband and children, why would they spend 10 years in school and from 4-7 years at the university, getting a degree ?

Why would these young women spend the biggest part of their young life studying so hard if they are so family oriented ? Why not, instead, go take domestic courses such as cooking and sewing and child rearing?

Do these women, who have spent the better part of their young lives dedicated to getting a higher education, look as women who are preparing themselves to be housewives and mothers and not have a professional career??? is look little bit like the opposite ... if not more...

Here is another question: Compared to the United States, how many children are in the average Russian family?

Is it not unusual to see in the average American family at least three children. The statistical average is 2.7 children per family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don t know, but that is the statistic!

In Russia, to see a family with three children would be quite a shock, absolutely! It is even unusual to see a Russian family with two children.

When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many pregnant women I saw on the streets! In Russia it is very seldom that you will see a pregnant woman in public. For the last few generations, Russian couple produce only one child. By the way, it is a very big problem in Russia.

That each couple produces only one child, does not allow the population to grow but rather, stagnate. To be honest, it is not only a problem for Russia, but for all European countries.

Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only one child if Russian women are so extremely family oriented as the dating agencies promise you? Why don't they want to have more children?

The reason is not because of a difficult economical situation, in fact you can see many countries that have much more difficult economic situations and these poor families have 5-10 children. In Russia, even wealthy families have only one child.

I can give you many more examples of what the dating agencies tell you and what you can see on your own.

Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your future wife's country and about the circumstances that she grew up in, before you marry her. It can prevent you from making many mistakes and help you to build a happy family with an Russian woman.

By: Marina Smiley

Monday, August 1, 2011

Dating Tips for Teens

As ateenager, you feel confused about what to do and what not to do, for your firstdate, and you often miss out on the excitement of the wholeexperience. Later, when you look back, you realize you shouldn't have been sonervous. So the next time, you are out on a date, keep some simple datingtips in mind, prepare yourself accordingly and see for yourself, thedifference these tips can make.

Right Venue for the Date
Think in advance about the most suitable venue for your date. The venue has animportant role to play in the date. Choose a place where both of you can have alot of fun together. Following are some of the options:

Watching a Movie - There are so many movies that its difficult to pickone. Perhaps, you can keep the names of different movies in a box and ask yourdate to pick one. You can opt for animation films as they are fun to watch andyou get a chance to have some good laugh together.

Going for Dinner - Taking your date out for a dinner is a veryconventional affair. A dinner date often gives you both, a lot of time to talkto each other. If you think you have a lot of things in your mind which youwant to share with your date, go out for a romantic dinner.

Sports/Games - If both of you are sports buffs, you can plan to go for afootball or basketball match and cheer for your favorite team. Even a game ofbowling or skiing with your loved one is not a bad idea!

Small Parties - Parties are a nice way to break the ice betweenyou two. Invite only a small group of close friends or your partner might feelleft out. You can arrange it at home or at a nearby hangout. Arrange for somegood food and soothing music. Together you can sing, dance and make merry!

Star gazing, walking on a beach, horse riding or boating are some other choicesyou have for your date. You can come up with some more innovative ideas to make your date more romantic.

Right Outfit for the Date
The kind of dress you wear on your date should vary according to your choice ofthe venue. For a dinner date, you should wear something formal but for a casualdate, choose casual wear. You need not necessarily wear a gorgeous-looking andexpensive dress for your date. It may not be able to give you the comfort thatyou want and may rather spoil your time if you give too much attention to youroutfit. So, go for a dress that will make you feel comfortable. A comfortabledress will keep you relaxed and you can enjoy every moment of your date. Makesure, you do not just look good but wear an enticing fragrance too. The smellof your perfume can have a lasting impression on your partner's mind.

Useful Tips for the Day
Be Real - Present yourself the way you are. You need not try to impressyour date with a fake image. Your falsity is bound to come forth and it'sreally embarrassing. Eventually, your partner will come to know what kind of aperson you are. Such a shameful incident can haunt you for a long time infuture.

Take it Easy - There is nothing wrong if you feel a bit nervous on yourdate. It is likely that your partner is equally nervous. Don't take itseriously. Start a light chat, exchange smiles, flirta little and you will find all the nervousness vanishing instantly!

Communicate - Good communication is very important to make a datesuccessful. No doubt, it's the best way to flirt with your partner! Conversefreely to get rid of all your inhibitions and awkwardness. Pick someinteresting subjects to talk about and make sure, the conversation does not getboring.

Eye Contact - Another interesting element for flirting! Eyes can speakin volumes that millions of words cannot express. Maintain a good eye contactwith your date. That will show your confidence and help you understand whetheryour partner is enjoying your company or not.

Dating Tips for Guys
  • Your passions and interests are bound to be different from her's. Accept those differences and respect her opinions. Try to avoid conversations on topics that do not interest girls.
  • Shower loads of compliments on your girl. Appreciate her look, her dressing sense, her hairstyle, etc. Compliments are sure to make her feel special. But ensure that you sound genuine.
  • Control your temper. Avoid any kind of arguments or fights. Even a small argument can spoil all your plans for the day.
  • Earn the trust of your girl's parents before you take her out for a date. Check out with them at what time they want her back home and get her back on time.
Dating Tipsfor Girls
  • Make sure your date comes to pick you up. If possible, introduce him to your parents. This will assure your parents of what kind of a person, you are going out with.
  • Do not go out with a guy whom your parents do not approve off.
  • If you are given a fixed time by your parents to come back home, respect that and make sure you reach home on or before that time.
  • Be aware of dating abuse. Research shows that girls are more prone to be victims of abuse on a date. If you are aware that your dating partner tends to express his anger or frustration very often, it is better to go for a group date than on a date alone
Dating forteens is a light-hearted activity. In future, you will get a lot ofopportunities to have serious relationships.Until then, spend some wonderful memorable moments of fun and joy with yourdate that you shall remember for long years to come.
By BidishaMukherjee

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Online Dating Girls

Online Dating Rules
  • Always let them come to you, don't chase them via email.
  • Block anyone who annoys you instantly.
  • Post the best and most vampish photo you can find.
  • Don't reply to instant messages with clever opening lines.
  • Remain aloof and let yourself be chased.
  • Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt.
  • Never provide your real email or phone details.
  • Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn.
  • Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy, as well as enigmatic.
  • Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best.
  • Do not assume the person you are talking to is destitute or sad.
  • Never ever reply to emails on weekends. Wait until a weekday.
  • Never state how good your sexual performance is in your profile.
  • If you don't want to date married men, spell it out in your profile.
  • A man who doesn't reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored.
  • Make sure your humor levels come across in text.
  • Do not chat to hundreds of men at once. The delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.
  • Don't even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out.
  • Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results
Ladies, always remember that you are a sexy, desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always allow yourself to be the chooser. Always stay safe and never risk yourself for the sake of attending a date. Always use a safe dating Website.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Dating With Asian Girls 2

Understanding the "True asian" Culture

A romantic relationship with a Asian has a better chance of success if you understand her culture. Asian women live in a culture focused on the community, with the family as the core social unit. Here faithfulness to the family is a tradition.
In the Asian, it is important to meet a woman’s family because the family is so important to her. If a man wants to be taken seriously by a woman, he has to visit the latter's family and introduce himself formally to the parents of the girl. It is rather inappropriate to court a woman and formalize the relationship without informing the parents of the girl.
Asians are communal, interdependent people, not dependent, like in western cultures. They are so by choice and because of their cultural needs. When you marry one you marry the family at least the mother and the father, the siblings too usually. That is trite, indeed, but true. If you can't deal with that let it be known from the start of your relationship with your Asian. If she is a "true asian", the relationship may not develop. If it does she may not be happy in it, but you will never know.

Love, Romance and Marriage

As far as courting is concerned, asians are expected to be pakipot (playing hard to get) because it is seen as an appropriate behavior in a courtship dance. It is also one way by which the Asian will be able to measure the sincerity of her admirer.
In order to legalize sexual relations or to avoid the stigma of becoming "old maids" young Asian women feel pressured into early marriages. Unlike women, young men, on the other hand, are allowed to express their sexuality freely, and are sometimes initiated by fathers who take their sons to brothels for sexual intercourse with women.
Traditionally, in Asian families the husband is expected to be the main breadwinner, chiefly responsible for the financial sustenance of the family, and the wife is "queen of the home". Thailand ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife. They put their family first and they are more willing to sacrifice their career than their family.
There is no divorce in the Asian. Asian couples have only three ways to change the status of their marriage: legal separation, declaration of nullity, and annulment. Legal separation allows spouses to live separately but they may not remarry. Declaration of nullity presupposes that the marriage is void from the beginning and the court declares its non-existence. Annulment legally cancels the marriage and both spouses are restored to their single status.

Dating in Russia

Dating in Russia vs Dating inNY
DatingRussian girls is different from dating girls in New York. Russian girls comefrom a different culture and a different continent, Here are a few pointers onhow Russian dating can be different from dating in New York:
RussianGirls Come from a Different Dating Culture
  • Russian girls dating foreign men date for marriage alone. For them, marriage and making a family is one of the most important milestones in their lives. Girls from New York are happy to settle for relationships other than marriage.
  • Russian girls are usually not fluent in English, and this makes communication with them somewhat more complicated than with American girls.
  • A Russian girl would expect a man to pick up the tab, open doors, and be generally chivalrous: for them, dating is a formal affair. American women would rather go dutch, and take dating more casually than their Russian counterparts.
There Aren’tMany Russian Girls in New York
  • This might seem obvious, but the greatest difference in dating Russian girls is that you will mostly meet them online. Though online dating is popular in New York, off-line dating is still available as an option.
  • To meet a Russian girl, traveling to Russia is expected at some point of time in the relationship. This fact must be remembered when you begin to interact with a Russian girl.
RussianGirls are Different from American Girls
  • Russian girls know how to balance their careers with their family lives, unlike the often extremely career oriented girls from New York. This makes Russian girls better wives for a happy and fulfilling family life.
  • Russian girls take meticulous care of their appearance, even as they get married and create a family. Unlike American girls who would often sacrifice looks for comfort, Russian girls are always groomed and made up, and keep their youth longer.
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Dating Korean Girls

Be nice to her family and to her best friend, too, but not that nice because then she’ll assume you’re hitting on her friends and that would NOT bode well for you. They like gifts too.

Every Korean girl likes expensive brands like Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Dior and Chanel. Remember dates, like the 100th day after you met, the 100th day after you said love to her, the 100th day. And buy her a little something accordingly. Your first gift can’t be something too cheap or else she’ll think you’ll never be able to provide for her  lifestyle. but at the same time, you can NEVER downgrade. it’s all up from there.

Carry her designer purse for her when she asks you to. As embarrassing as it is, it is less embarrassing than when she starts to whine and starts sobbing, “but so and so’s boyfriend carries her bag for her, don’t you love me baby? why won’t you carry my bag for me, my arm hurts so on so on.

Prepare to get fat. Korean girls love to feed their men. Fatten them up for the kill, so to speak? They’ll make you so fat that no woman would want to see your body.

Pretend not to notice when she’s stuffing her face. Most Korean girls will pretend that she doesn’t eat that much but once you get closer you will know that a Korean girl’s stomach has no limitations. She was lying when she said she wasn’t hungry the first time you took her out to dinner. As soon as you dropped her off at home, she busted out the biggest pot in the kitchen and made herself with the four bowls of leftover rice. And ate it all. In one sitting. And probably downed it with a beer. 

Korean girls like to feel special. Don’t check out other girls when you’re spending time with her. She has eyes like a hawk and will notice if you so much a glance at another girl. She’ll make a big deal and start a fight with you in the middle of the street.

When you go drinking remember that she drinks way more than she’s letting on. Korean girls hardly get drunk but they would like to appear it so you can take care of her. Korean girls like to drink soju.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

How to Date Russian Girls and Succeed

Dating Russian girls in the right manner could mean finding a great companion in life. Russian women are known for their intense beauty that leave most men wide eyed. They are an interesting lot of women who are extremely lovable. They are excellent home makers. A western man needs to do a lot to get their attention to date them. This is because of the difference in culture and other aspects. As a man wishing to date Russian women, you need a few pointers that will lead you into the right direction.

First, you need to put on a new perspective and realize that you are dating someone with a different background from yours. You need to have an open mind; willing to learn new things about dating Russian women. First, your idea of appealing to women must change. You need to replace those ideas with what Russian women expect. For example, if you are the typical western man wooing a woman with your wealth and professional success, you need to think again.

Rethink your strategy and go back to basics. Be humble and avoid pride; pride only makes things worse in any relationship. Therefore, be the kind to put you in the background and keep an interest for her first. When dating Russian girls, you need to be well kept and well groomed. These are the little things that make a huge impression to the lady. Russian girls like to be showered with gifts and flowers. In their culture, this is a sign of great affection and concern. Therefore, in many occasions, Russian women expect such things from their man.

It does not have to be a special occasion for you to shower them with gifts. Doing this on the first date will start you off on good terms and, the relationship might blossom to something good. The challenge presented by language barrier can prove to be detrimental in a relationship. Therefore, when dating Russian girls, it will not hurt to learn a few things in Russian. This will definitely display effort. Many Russian girls take the burden of learning English to please the men.

If you show interest in their language, you have a lasting relationship made. It is also paramount to go through a trusted dating site, if you want to meet the right Russian girls. The most popular service you can go through is Lovers planet. Here, you get to correspond with the girl before you meet. This is the best way to meet Russian girls. Keep off those sites that carry on scams and falsehoods. Finally, it is paramount for you to be serious with the relationship if you want marriage. This way, you will have the confidence you need to go the extra mile and make a connection. Many people who have married Russian girls speak with no regret; you will definitely find the girl you are looking for, when you keep at it. Maintain a positive attitude while dating Russian girls. Have fun all the way.

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